I'm not sure why people are offended at the term "Happy Holidays". To me, that is just a way to include everyone. I have a couple of friends who are Jewish and they don't get upset hearing Merry Christmas (that's not to say all don't), but Happy Holidays fits the bill better for them. Recently there was a post on FB that if people didn't celebrate Christmas, they could just go ahead and leave our country. Now, I'm not an expert on history, religion, or anything else for that matter, but it seems to me that the first settlers came here for religious freedom...to practice whatever religion they wanted (or none at all). Certainly the Native Americans did not celebrate Christmas and as I recall, they were here before "us". I know that the US is not always known for it's people's acceptance of others (some do, some don't), but you would think at this time of year that a giving, an understanding, "let's be caring" spirit (not exclusion) would be more forthcoming.
Each year I show a video in class about four different holidays celebrated at this time of year (my way to celebrate Christmas with them or their holiday). I have had students that celebrate one or more of the four (Christmas, Hannukah, Kwanzaa, and Las Posadas) and I know they appreciate that
their holiday is talked about. Christians and those who celebrate Christmas are not the only American citizens who live in our country. Isn't it ironic that some people get so upset and self centered thinking it is the only holiday at this time of year and that if you don't do what they do, you're somehow a bad person, just because they aren't greeted a certain way? Some people say it's being politically correct. Others see it as there are more than just us celebrating at this time of year.
I found this
article that talks about the controversial "Happy Holidays" vs. "Merry Christmas" debacle. My favorite quote from the article is,“How you greet people isn’t a measure of your faith,” she said. “How you treat people is.”
So, would I rather be greeted with "Merry Christmas"? Sure. I like that much better. Is "Happy Holidays" said as an offensive remark? Not a chance. I'll take it...and I might even say it if I'm not sure what you celebrate.
Merry Christmas and Happy Holidays!